It’s frequently the case that people have amazing dreams, but do in truth little to achieve them!
I muse upon this is a real puzzle that people would settle for keeping an ok life alternatively than leading an outstanding life!
But it’s not an uncommon thing – time after time people are prepared to settle for what’s so-so!
It can happen in any area of life. I’ve seen a great deal clients who long fored to run successful businesses, however seem to sabotage their own success and end up with genuinely average results! And that’s the thing – they completely were capable of achieving brilliant businesses, but things held them back for achieving the incredible vision they have.
Recently I saw a client who had an brilliant dream – to write a novel . She had longed to do this for years and years, but kept many sorts of reasons, excuses and other activities to put it off. it’s not that she was consciously finding these other something to do, or think of excuses, but every occasion she would have sat down to start at writing, she’d find other a thing to occupy her!
She realized that at some level she was sabotaging her own chance of success. It was like part of her totally longed to write this incredible piece of work and get it published, but there was another part of her that was holding her back.
Now that is a clear example of inner conflict – where there were 2 parts of her that both want ed different thingies and ultimately she didn’t feel euphoric either way.
I showed her the NLP technique for ‘Parts Integration’ – the first part had the positive intention of staying safe and secure and the other part had the intention of Becoming successful. On the surface the one part that long fored to be safe thought that becoming successful might put her at risk, so every time she took action to be successful she sabotaged herself. During the process we found a higher common intention between the parts and she found a way they might work together rather than be in conflict.
So what are some of the steps to help you break through conflict and achieve outstanding results in your life?
1 You need to know your outcome – what is it specifically that you wish
2 Where are you now – in relation to your vision, where are you at the moment? You need to know where you are beginning from to create the best route!
3 What (if anything) is preventing you from having your big picture. Sometimes it is not perceptible, so spend a bit of time mull over ing any blocks – these are the conflicts!
Follow these steps and you’ll find which is a way to make any outcome into reality easier so you might live an excellent life. Don’t settle for so-so when you might be good .
NLP training is a neat way to help people turn dreams into reality. A hypnotherapist in London will also help you achieve your dreams more quickly.